WHY LOVE IS FREE.
God loves you.1 He actually gives this love so freely that He says it's His name. God is Love.2
Despite that whole mess we made, in a garden a long time ago, where we chose independence from Him, He came as Jesus and died for us. And through this, through Christ, God reconciled all creation back to Himself.3 Jesus died so you and He could be together.
This is at the core of Love Is Free. We believe that God loves you, intensely. We also believe that the purpose of the Church, of Christians is to represent God,4 to represent this love, to the world. We believe that as we experience this love of God it should change the way we love others,5 that as Christians we should freely give love as we have freely received it.6
WHO WE ARE.
Love Is Free is a community. Some might call us an organization. We used to just think of ourselves as friends or Christians, but at some point, we started doing things bigger than watching movies, playing games and eating together, which led to this. Our hope, as Love Is Free, is to actively be a voice of love,1 to be a carrier of the Kingdom of Heaven.2 This is unique in each situation so, appropriately, we adapt. Whatever it is that we do, we want to give people an encounter with the love of God.
WHAT WE DO.
We do a lot of things. Sometimes, we make pancakes.
Being a college town, one of Auburn's predominant social mechanisms is its bar scene. Most Friday nights, the bars are filled until 02:30 am when state law forces everyone to leave. Judging from the size crowds that migrate to Waffle House or to some other restaurant open at those hours, alcohol and hunger share some odd correlation.
We saw this as an opportunity so those of us, who make up Love Is Free, began serving free pancakes on Friday nights from midnight on into the early hours of Saturday morning. It seemed that if people were hungry, a good way to love them, would be to give them free food.1
We are still surprised at the number and intensity of the questions we receive, most of them aimed at our motives. They create an opportunity for conversation. So every Friday night, we get to share the love of God with people. We get to talk about how God is actually gracious and slow to anger and very, very rich when it comes to love.2
Another opportunity for Love Is Free is the finals for Auburn University. At the end of every semester, students crowd into the library, overwhelmed, tired, and ready to be done.
We decided that we would serve them free coffee from 01:00 am, soon after the library's coffee shop closes, till 03:00 am. This allows us to meet their needs and desires3 with love, a similar endeavor to free pancakes, but a different demographic. Again, as people ask questions, we are able share God's love with them.
We don't just do outreaches though. Community is one of the most significant parts of Love Is Free. We believe that as we experience the love of God it should change the way we treat each other4 especially those who are closest to us. We want to create a place of love, encouragement, and empowerment, a place where ordinary people can become great. We are also trying to bring others into our community, even those who don't know Jesus or aren't sure He loves them, like that whole “go into the nations” thing.5 As we grow in relationship, we hope to speak truth into each other, disciple others, be apostles.
Those of us, who are a part of Love Is Free, also do normal things like shop, work, or go to school. We're starting to realize that these are opportunities also, that Christianity is not necessarily just about going to Heaven when you die, but also bringing the Kingdom of Heaven now.6 It's praying for a girl on crutches in the grocery store or loving your usual coffee shop barista, listening to their life, caring.
So we're starting to make the transition from doing ministry to being Christians.
WHEN ?
Well, Love Is Free started doing ministry on Friday nights in August of 2007, but “When?” is most likely a much more elusive question to answer. At some point an acorn becomes an oak tree, but it seems that the transition may be slightly more subtle. Like the way mustard plants1 slowly overtake their surroundings. It hard to say when it started, maybe on a trip to Africa, but it has slowly grown.
The goal of Love Is Free is not to be an event, a once-a-week thing, but to become a pervasive culture. Sharing the love of God at your weekly outreach may be a little inconsistent with the life of Jesus or what we saw in the early church. Not that weekly outreaches are bad [ we have one ] but we believe that the Kingdom of Heaven2 is something much larger. It's something that should take over your life, more an issue of frequency.
We hope that Love Is Free moves from Friday nights in downtown Auburn into your work places, into your homes, into your daily lives.
WHERE YOU CAN REACH US.
If you have any questions, you can e-mail us at mail@whyloveisfree.org.
Also, if you're interested in joining our community, you can e-mail us at community@whyloveisfree.org.
Or if you'd like to send us mail the old-fashioned way, you can send it to:
Love Is Free
118 S. Gay St. Unit B
Auburn, AL 36830
HOW YOU CAN HELP.
PRAY
We believe that prayer works1 and that without God this is all in vain.2 We also believe that God is good3 and that God actually wants to help us.4 We would love your prayers. If you'd like to know how you can pray for us specifically in this season, feel free to ask us at prayer@whyloveisfree.org.
SUPPORT
Love Is Free is completely support based, which means that your generosity makes what we do possible. We are still in the tedious process of applying for a non-profit status, which means that in the meantime all gifts will not be tax deductible. We would greatly appreciate any donation you can give. You can do it online here. Or if you'd prefer not to use a credit card, you can mail checks for Love Is Free to:
Love Is Free
118 S. Gay St. Unit B
Auburn, AL 36830
JOIN
Our heart is for this to spread, for the Kingdom to advance. We'd love for you to join us. If you live somewhere near Auburn, AL and would like to come volunteer or join our community, we would love it. You can e-mail us at community@whyloveisfree.org.
Our goal is not for Love Is Free to become a massive organization. What we really want is for this to become a movement. We want to see your communities grow as places of love and grace.
APPENDIX
IN A GARDEN [A1]
In VELVET ELVIS, Rob Bell makes a brilliant point. In discussing the “principle of first mention,” Bell brings up John's telling of the resurrection. Mary, having found the tomb empty, is weeping in the garden, and Jesus, whom she mistakes for the gardener, comes up to her and asks her why she's crying.1 Bell writes that Mary thinking Jesus is the gardener is significant. The first mention of a garden in the Bible is obviously Eden. Bell says that John is connecting the first Adam with Jesus, the second Adam. Pretty profound. Paul makes this connection both in Romans and in 1 Corinthians.2
It's beautiful that we fall in the garden, and God comes and redeems us in one.
GOD RECONCILED [A2]
In 2 Corinthians Paul writes about how through Christ God reconciled us with Him.1 Kris Vallotton, the Senior Associate Leader of Bethel Church in Redding, CA, has some phenomenal teachings on this passage. He emphasizes how God reconciled us by “not counting men's sins against them.” Paul says that we have been given this ministry of reconciliation. Kris talks about how this should have implications for the way Christians interact with the world. That same “not counting men's sins against them” thing.
This connects with the teachings of Jesus, where He implores Christians not to Judge.2 Instead, He repeatedly tells His followers to love others, even their enemies.3 Maybe, this implies that Christians should be the least judgmental and most loving group of people. Maybe, their purpose is to bless the rest of the world.4 Maybe, it's actually kindness that leads people to repentance.5
CHANGE THE WAY WE LOVE OTHERS [A3]
It seems that Jesus had this idea that as we experienced the love of God, His love, it should change the way we love others. He even says it directly in John.1
At another point a teacher of the law asks Jesus what the greatest commandment is. Jesus replies that it is to “Love the Lord your God with all your heart with all your soul and with all your mind.” He then says that the second commandment is to “Love your neighbor as yourself2.” It's interesting that He slides that “as yourself” part in at the end. It almost sounds as if it's a prerequisite for loving others.
Some say that simply means, to value others as highly or higher than yourself. While that is a good principle, there's probably more depth there. Maybe to truly love others we must first love ourselves. This is not to advocate narcissism but to say that until we love ourselves, there will always be fear in our relationships, fear of rejection, fear of being hurt.
As we love God, as we experience His love, we will begin to see ourselves the way He sees us and find that that is where our worth is, not in our relationships with others. You matter because the God of the universe, who could have had anything He wanted, chose you, and He loves you. He will never leave you.3 He will heal you. This is what motivates and allows us to love others, first being loved by God.4 Maybe, this is how we begin to change the way we love others.
BE A CARRIER OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN [A4]
Surprisingly, Jesus didn't really preach the gospel of salvation. He was always talking about this Kingdom, telling people that the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand or that the Kingdom of God has come close to you.1
What's even more interesting is that this connects all the way back to the book of Daniel. In one of Daniel's dream, the Son of man, a phrase used to describe Jesus, is given a Kingdom. It appears this is what Jesus is talking about, His Kingdom. Yet when the dream is interpreted for Daniel, the Kingdom is given to the saints, or to Christians, as if through Christ, Christians receive a Kingdom also.2
We, at Love Is Free, believe this, that as Christians, you carry the Kingdom of Heaven inside you. Paul writes the “Spirit of Him Who raised Jesus from the dead” lives in us.3 He also describes our bodies as the temple of the Holy Spirit.4 At one point, Jesus sends out His disciples instructing them to “cure the sick, raise the dead, cleanse the lepers, drive out demons.” He says to tell people “the kingdom of God has come close to you,” implying that they carried the Kingdom with them.5 Later, Jesus says that anyone who believes in Him will do greater things, greater miracles, than He did.6
This is huge.
We hope that as we become more aware of the Kingdom of Heaven inside of us. It will begin to change the atmosphere around us, that even though it is dark, our light has come.7
FREE FOOD [A5]
To give you an idea of what a Friday night giving out free pancakes looks like: On a typical Friday night, we will cook 45 pounds of dry pancake mix. This translates roughly into 1,250 pancakes, which are all cooked on 6 electric griddles in a room that is about 200 square feet. If the average person eats 2, we would serve around 600 people every night, and not every one we talk to eats pancakes. This whole ordeal costs on average costs about $150.00 every week. It's only taken us over a year to get this down.
ORDINARY PEOPLE CAN BECOME GREAT [A6]
In his sermon, Heaven Superimposed on Earth, Kris Vallotton from Bethel Church presents the environment in which he believes this is possible. He talks about how Jesus believed in people before they deserved it. One of the examples Vallotton uses is that Jesus, knowing Judas was a thief, made him the money keeper.1 Something else he brings up is how Peter got his name. Originally, his was called Simon, meaning “broken reed,” but Jesus tells that his name is actually Peter, or “rock.” Jesus speaks life into him, empowers him.2 Vallotton also incorporates the lives of Paul and Barnabas. It's rather powerful.
Vallotton says this environment is how Jesus took some Jewish boys, who hadn't made it in religious school, and transformed them into people who changed the world. He says that cultures where we believe in people while also getting below the surface and dealing with problems are places where people can become great. He advocates us speaking worth into people, connecting them with their identity in Christ, creating environments of empowerment and confrontation.
Sounds like a pretty good idea.
GO INTO THE NATIONS [A7]
This phrase is an excerpt from the Great Commission, where Jesus tells His disciples to go into the nations and make disciples.1
What's interesting is that the word “nations” there is actually the word “ethnos” in the Greek, where we get the word ethnicity. Rob Bell says in one of his teachings at Mars Hill that this word, “ethnos,” essentially means people not like you, in this context. Consider that these are a few Jewish boys, who have intentionally avoided the “ethnos” or Gentiles their entire lives. It was not uncommon, in Jewish culture at that time, for the Gentiles even to be despised. They were of course unclean.
APOSTLES [A8]
Oddly, you won't find the term “apostle” anywhere in the Old Testament. This is probably because it was coined by the Roman Empire. The Roman form of conquest was multi-dimensional. Using their dominant military power, they would invade an area. They would then establish Roman policy and implement taxation, allowing them to both unify and fund their empire. Having done that, they would move on to conquer more territory.
What they found though is that when they returned to regions they had already conquered, the inhabitants would be living they same way they did before the Roman occupation. This undermined the Roman model. The Romans began leaving a special class of officers in the region to show the people through example how to live as a Roman citizen. They called these officers apostles.
It's interesting that Jesus uses this term to refer to the twelve.1 It was almost as if He was saying that they were to show people what it looked like to be Christian, almost like what Paul says. We are the ambassadors of Christ.2
MUSTARD PLANTS [A9]
Shane Claiborne has some interesting insight on the parable of the mustard seed in his book, The Irresistible Revolution.1 He shares that mustard has similar characteristics to kudzu, a plant known for slowly, but completely, overtaking its surroundings.
Maybe some revelation as to how Christianity should spread. It's also interesting that the birds of the air find their home there. Some claim that this refers exclusively to unclean birds, those taboo to the religious institution of the time, possibly inferring how we should receive those, who aren't so well received by the present religious crowd.
A TRIP TO AFRICA [A10]
Chris, a guy who was a pretty big part of starting Love Is Free, took a trip to Swaziland in 2007. He said that he was overwhelmed by the death and darkness that consume that place. Something more disturbing was the familiarity of what he saw. He had found the same death and darkness in the streets of his hometown, Auburn, AL. The tragedy of Africa is that you die by the time you're thirty. This is truly heartbreaking. The tragedy of America is that you die by the time your thirty and then walk the earth for another fifty years. It seems like there is an urgency to bring life even in a place like America.
THE LIFE OF JESUS [A11]
There are all these stories in the Gospels of Jesus spending His time with prostitutes and tax collectors, eating with them, loving them. It appears He spent time predominantly with people like that, people the religious establishment disaproved of, so much so that it affected His reputation.1 Luke writes that Jesus was known as “a glutton and a wine drinker, a friend of tax collectors and notorious sinners2.” Not to ignore the idea that “bad company corrupts good morals,”3 we should still have Christian community, but Jesus also said that it's the sick that need a doctor.4 Maybe, Christians are supposed to actually be in the world, even though they're not of it.
WHAT WE SAW IN THE EARLY CHURCH [A12]
The beginning of Acts is pretty weighty. It talks about how the early Christians sold everything they had, gave to those in need, and lived together in community.1 This seems pretty far from what we see in the current North American Church, but maybe, they were on to something. Maybe, there's something to living in community. What if Christianity was actually something that affected your entire life? What if the veil was torn and there is no longer a division between sacred and secular?2